Right, the bare right angle spade connector does NOT attach to anything metallic- is sits in a recess on the red trigger- just to the rear of the shiny metal thing- you should see a suspicious looking spade connector fitting recess in the red plastic it press fits and sits in there- ready to contact the shiny metal bit WHEN the red lever is moved to the KILL or OFF position.
If you follow the blue wire back a couple of inches- there should be what appears to be a wire join under some white heat shrink. This is NOT a wire join, but another inline female spade connector. BEFORE you fit the bare spade at the end of the wire into the trigger recess, this connector must be slipped onto the end of the metal shiny bit that looks like a male spade connector- then fit the bare end connector into the trigger recess so that when the kill switch is activated- the bare terminal contacts the shiny metal and is separated from it when the kill in in the open or run position.